There must be transformation and change when we grow up especially during our puberty, a maturing stage from a child becoming an adult.
This process is very important in life.
It is a stage that we kind of knowing what we are doing and feeling we are autonomous.
We start having our own understand and concept to life.
But in fact, we are still not that independent yet including our finance, relationships and outlook etc
So somehow, deep down from our heart, we still want some guidance and support from our parents so we can feel safe to be on our own.
Now, home and parents play an important role here.
When we start to generate our own ideas, even if it’s a silly thought, but for a kid or teenager, we are so excited to share it with our parents because it’s like our creation and this is very genuine, pure and vulnerable.
However, what we want from them is not how they think about our ideas
but a free space for us to express ourselves.
No matter how unique or crazy our thoughts are,
we want our needs, questions, curiosity and creativity to be allowed.
This is truly what we want deep down our heart.
If we didn’t have an acceptable space like this,
Even when we are a grown-up, fear just comes up whenever we want to express our true selves.
We are afraid to be seen.
We dare not get out of our comfort zone.
Because once we are exposed, it reminds us how painful it was to be rejected from our parents, whom we trust the most.
After rejection, shame and self-doubt unfold.
Am I not good enough?
Is my thought so shameful?
Is my question too stupid or weird?
So I am rejected and not accepted?
Even after years, when we want to do something different from others, these self-doubt are recalled.
But the most ironic fact is everyone of us is never the same.
All of us have our own uniqueness.
Our blueprints are definitely different.
What makes us the most fulfilling and “successful” in life is to be our true and unique selves.
Our body actually store a lot of emotions of being rejected in this case.
Chest is closed-off. We want to hide from others. Heads are lowered. Our voice is small.
These are all the tensions in our nervous system and makes it imbalance.
Through using my B15 this time together with my personalised Kundalini Yoga practice, I cried like hell and a voice comes up from my body,
“I don’t want my memory and connection with my mom is only pain from rejection.
There are a lot more than that. There is so much love between us behind the pain also.”
I cried even harder because I can truly feel the power of love.
It goes beyond the pain.
It supports me to go through the pain because love is greater.
With this great love, I am willing to step out of my comfort zone.
With this powerful love, I choose to live well.
I would love to live well with my mom freely without resentment.
I don’t want to talk to my mom with an armor on just because I am afraid of this pain.
This time, I choose Love.
I wish you all the best.
To resolve the relationship with your inner child and the relationship with your parents like peeling an onion with this greatest love.
Don’t forget there is always beauty at the core of the onion.
I hope my sharing can support you letting go of any attachment and reach the beauty by seeing it from a higher vision.
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